It’s Sunday in Barcelona which means it’s once again my day off (cue the eye rolls). I’ve spent today pretending that I live here. Doing the things I would normally do on a beautiful Sunday. Now this was not a perfect exercise as I am without my family at the moment. This cuts out a solid 2 hours of coffee, reading and puzzle games in the morning with my beautiful wife next to me. It also cuts out me making waffles for the kids. (Man I could go for a waffle right now…)
So what did I do today? Well, I needed my coffee fix so I went to the nearest place and grabbed an espresso. I’ve found that I’m a sucker for the tiny cups and spoons. Tan pequeno! (So tiny!) All fueled up, I decided to go for a run down to the beach and back. Now don’t get excited, it was only 3 miles, round trip. (We’re very lucky here and I do not take it for granted.) Much to my surprise, the beach was already quite busy. (When do Spaniards sleep?!) After a quick shower, I needed food so I found a brunch place with good reviews. Eggs so orange they could have been….well oranges. An amazing yogurt/fruit/granola bowl drizzled in honey. And one more espresso…you know just to keep things interesting. ;)
I’m now downtown in the Gothic Quarter and have several hours to kill in this day. Fortunately, it’s the first Sunday of the month, which means most museums in the city are free! I take full advantage and visit the Indigenous peoples museum as well as the Picasso museum. The Picasso museum tells a great chronological story of his progression as an artist. It’s amazing to see how talented he was even as a child. (You can spot some of the early drawings based on the fact that his characters are pooping…kids.)
After an hour of strolling through gift shops and vintage retail stores, I’m tired and decide to go home to relax. Ordinarily, I would cook something at the home for dinner, relax with a movie, and call it a very successful day. Today I have to grab dinner at a local restaurant, which is fine.
This exercise of pretending to live in Spain got me thinking, what does it mean to be Spanish? A few observations from this gringo (I could be way off on these, so to my new Spanish friends…take this with a grain of salt):
- Kiss each other twice in the cheeks when greeting someone
- Have both a glass of wine and a coffee in the same meal
- Understand the importance of carrying a personal fan
- Walk…a lot
- Men: Rock a sweet mustache
- Women: Perhaps forget to wear a top at the beach
- Know exactly which areas of the city you need to watch your belongings
- Be fiercely loyal to at least one futbol team
- Probably speak more than 1 language
- Have meaningful conversations with family and friends on a daily basis
- Argue about whether paella should or should not include onions (it should)
- Smoke ‘em if you got ‘em
- Say “Vale” (which sounds like “Bale” and means OK) a lot - it’s my favorite word
- Speak loud and probably with your hands
- Listen to a lot of American music from the 90s and 2000s
- Drink several small coffees or espressos throughout the day (vs one big gulp at the beginning of the day)
- Linger for conversation after each meal (sobremesa)
- Know your Spanish history
- Appreciate eco-friendly practices
- Appreciate Spanish art
- Appreciate local, hand-made products
- Get a tattoo…or twenty
- Start thinking about having dinner at about 9 or 10 PM (seriously, when do you sleep?!)
- Work to live
- Live in the moment
- Spend most leisure time outside and with people

































